Dating rituals have long been influenced by societal norms and expectations, often perpetuating traditional gender roles. Among these customs, the notion of men always paying for meals on dates has stood as a prominent symbol of chivalry and male responsibility.
However, as society continues to progress towards greater gender equality and inclusivity, this age-old tradition is beginning to undergo a subtle but transformative shift.
Recently, a Tiktoker shared a story about her ex boyfriend wanting to split a bill for dinner, but then another an stepped in to pay for her meal.
I told this story sometime last year, but I had a lot less followers. So I’m telling it again because more people need to hear it. So me and my ex-boyfriend are dating at the time. We went to Waffle House. It’s 2 in the morning. He’s like, “hey, can you pay for your own food? I don’t really have money.” I’m not a complainer. Yeah, of course. Whatever.
We tell our server that we’re on separate checks, and when she comes back to give us the check, she goes, “oh, yours was actually already paid for.” I was like, “Me? What?” she was like, “Yeah”, I think she thought we might have been siblings or something. She was like “A guy over there thought you were cute, asked if you were on separate checks and he paid for your food.”
When I tell you, my boyfriend was so mad at me and I was just like, “That’s what you get for not paying for my food.”
But if I’m ever a server and that happens, I’m going to pay for the girl’s food and say that exact thing. I genuinely don’t think that’s what happened, because there was this older man looking at me the whole time, but needless to say, anytime we sat down to eat after that, my food was paid for.
See the Tiktok for yourself here:
@katieritchiie Buy yo girls food‼️
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