New Employee Challenges Work Nickname Tradition, Igniting Conflict Among Colleagues

Using nicknames at work can be a sensitive form of communication, varying in their reception among employees. While some may find it fun, others may not appreciate it, as in the case of the new coworker in this r/AITA Reddit story.

In a bustling hospital, a close-knit department thrived, bonded not only by their shared responsibilities but also by their playful workplace culture. Each member had a unique nickname that mirrored their individuality. Among them was John, known as “The Gravewalker,” for his late-night graveyard shifts and the scars that whispered tales of his resilience. The work nicknames brought laughter and camaraderie, uniting the team in a shared sense of fun.

However, a new colleague arrived, disapproving of this light-hearted tradition. She adamantly refused to use the nicknames, causing a rift in the department. Despite the chief’s attempts to foster understanding, the new colleague confronted John, berating him for his nickname. Tempers flared, and in a moment of frustration, John responded harshly.

Now, the team strives to accommodate the newcomer, using their real names when addressing her. Yet, amidst the tensions, OP wonders if their reaction was justified, asking members or r/AITA if he was in the wrong.


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Nate Armbruster

When he's not doomscrolling Twitter or writing for Pleated-Jeans, Nate Armbruster writes jokes—and then tells them on stage as a stand-up comedian, where he can watch audiences (hopefully) laugh in real-time.