Name something that works perfectly fine in your relationship, but according to social media, y’all.

31 So-Called Relationship “Red Flags” That People Say Work Just Fine For Them, And It’s Refreshing To Read

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If you take enough relationship advice from social media, eventually you’ll have to break up with someone for loading the dishwasher without checking your love language first. Everybody’s a relationship expert, and somehow the recommendation is always to leave.

That’s why I like this question from TikTok user @vann.nnii, who asked people to name something that works perfectly fine in their relationship but apparently shouldn’t, according to social media.

Name something that works perfectly fine in your relationship, but according to social media, y’all’.
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It’s easy to forget there are two actual people in a relationship who get to decide what works for them. The comment section seemed to appreciate getting a break from the usual unsolicited breakup advice, too.

This comment section is so healthy wow.
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Below, people shared the supposedly concerning relationship habits they’re perfectly happy with. It seems you can enjoy your life together without getting the entire internet to sign off on it first. Love to see it.

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Sometimes I pay for him bc I just want to.
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We both pay for things, because we're young and I can't expect him to spend his whole check on me.
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Ellen.2009 talking about our exes and past relationships.
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Not texting 24/7 we can leave eachother on delivered for a few hours and it works perfectly.
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14 years relationship, not a single fight. We even have champagne in the fridge to celebrate the day.
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I tell him what I need instead of expecting him to already know.
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H im having friends that are girls. I literally do not care. we know eachothers boundaries and I've.
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Me having his phone password and literally checking it 0 times a year.
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Hemmingway12: We barely/never post eachother on social media.
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He’s terrible at planning stuff so I do all the planning for dates and trips. I like it that way and.
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Having his phone password and location. People always think it means I don’t trust him. Girl I just.
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We have no hobbies or interests in common.
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Private but not a secret. Everyone knows we are together, but know nothing about our relationship.
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Not going out on dates as much; we love a good movie and dinner in bed, thank you very much.
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He doesn't buy me flowers, but he buys me food that I love.
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Saying "I'm sorry, I have a girlfriend" when someone hits on me/her. I don't get those people who to.
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Going 50/50 on just about everything. A man is not an ATM.
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We communicate over snapchat.
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We often call eachother discriminatory names and we think its absolutely hilarious.
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We dont talk to each other when we’re angry. We let the anger subside and then we talk logically a f.
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Couple celebrates 10th anniversary and 11th wedding anniversary text.
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Being married. according to social media, I'm enslaved, miserable and male centered.
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We are honest and unbothered about the fact that we will find other ppl attractive from time to time.
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We have barely any pictures together (because when we're on dates how do you get a picture together?.
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Lakish’a Free access to each others phones, finances and social media.
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Sleeping in separate rooms. We have vastly different sleeping schedules and we both struggle withIns.
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Being completely obsessed with each other to the point that we always want to be together. After 23.
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Live together since idk 2nd month?.
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We can stay a few days without speaking not because we argued just two souls recharging energy.
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Nastya Age gap text beside small circular photo.
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On his birthday, all the bill is on me. I do the planning from gifts to restaurants. He does nothing.
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