‘I’m Gay And Being A Bottom Is The Hardest Part’

There’s a stereotype in the gay community that suggests one partner is a top and one partner is a bottom and that’s that. When in reality, either or both partners might be versatile in their preferences. Some men enjoy both positions, others stick to one.

Take these guys, for instance, who are sharing with Whisper what they like and don’t like when it comes to the bedroom and why the top/bottom assumption isn’t always accurate.

1. For some, it takes a couple of times to know.

2. It’s important to understand the terminology.

3. Some have their own contingencies.

4. Stereotypes aren’t always accurate.

5. Some guys are versatile.

6. And like the benefits of both.

7. Some have committed to one or the other.

8. Others are waiting for the right person to try new things with.

9. It’s not always what you think.

10. It doesn’t have to have a label.

11. It’s important to find someone who’s compatible.

12. It’s not always one or the other.

13. There’s nothing wrong with curiosity.

14. Some guys wish everyone liked both.

15. Others struggle to find their counterpart.

16. Some have always known what they like.

17. And some can’t get enough of one.

18. But it can be too much at times.